Approach and beg

Send your first offering of an american amazon giftcard to my email, nzingha487@gmail.com

Beg to know how you can be of service to me.

-Goddess Lotus

Hello dear whites! I promised to tease and tantalize, so keeping up my end of the bargain. kittenbitch has been locked for almost a month. You know what that means? Time to start his anal training!

little white kitten, locked, and sissified for my absolute pleasure

There has one been one boy who leaves, comes back, leaves - and its his age. Young subs are always afraid of the deep end. 

But in the end, they succumb to someone naturally more powerful than themselves. I want white boys and girls to know I am a safe place for conversation, play, and kink. I'm 100 percent real, not fake, and seeking a total power exchange.

Go ahead and approach me if youre courageous enough to wander down the rabbit hole...

-Goddess Lotus

Friendship in D/s: Is it possible?

The best part about BDSM, is there it can come in so many variations. Each Domme has their style, and each sub has their own way to submit. It's the joining of the two, and making that power exchange last that lead to a wonderful journey. My question to the community, is.. Can friendship and D/s work well together? There are some that enjoy topping 24/7, being as strict as possible, as rough as possible - without ever taking a step back. And there are some who enjoy 'scenes'. These are moments of kink and play, and after the moment has finished, aftercare and general respectful banter is welcomed. 

I am sure there are a myriad of ways friendship and D/s can be influenced and shared with one another. I only have MY opinion to work from, but would love to hear from Ladies and boys alike on their take. I have owned kittenbitch for around 5 years now. Not only are we in a total power exchange, but we're friends. I genuinely care about his life, goals, problems, issues, etc. The same could be said for him, I am sure. I find great pleasure in knowing that if I need to call him at work to vent about stupid shit, I can. There is always a line of respect, a sense of authority over him, but it isnt forced. It's natural, and just chatting is a major part of our relationship. Keeps him on his toes for when I flip the script and begin to play/tease at MY discretion.

I've found that when I try to enter into this dynamic with others, to get to to know them, they half expect me to just be harsh/cruel/mistress throughout the entirety of the conversation. For me, that is exhausting. I want someone that understands that friendship is possible within a power exchange, and that I'm a real domme looking for another obedient real submissive. The lifestyle and kink of financial domination isnt a way for me to make money - its a way that I strip away another's control and independence. It is very possible, for me, to make the two sides of the coin work. If there is a sub interested in serving, all he need do is approach.

I am unsure if I am rambling, or if this blog came out to a cohesive thought.. Can friendship and D/s work well in BDSM?

-Goddess Lotus

life of a kitten part 2

The next post is from my online slave, kittenbitch. He wanted to share some of his progress for any whites reading.

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Today, I find myself wearing a cock cage, with a shaved crotch and thighs and toenails that are

painted with clear polish. My finances are no longer my own and the woman that I call Goddess

controls my life.

Although I am not wearing my cock ring or panties at this moment, that is how my submission

started. Goddess wanted me to wear Her collar and instead of opting for the traditional one

around the neck, She decided on something a bit more discrete but still very effective, my cock

ring. You have seen a photo of it, it is a little heavy, made from metal with a braid going around

it. It is just tight enough to remind me that even my cock is not my own anymore.

Over time, Goddess and I purchased panties for me to wear, not every day, but to fulfill Her

desires to remind me on occasion, that I was no longer a man in the real sense of the word.

At first my crotch was not shaved and from time to time, I was commanded to wear my cock

cage (the CB-6000). While this was humiliating and humbling, Goddess did not stop there, She

wanted me to shave to further remind me of my place in Her world.

From a shaved crotch we progressed to painting my nails and shaving my thighs, continuing my

submissive journey.

It has now been seven days that I have been caged and it serves as a constant reminder that this

cocklet belongs to Goddess and only She has the power to let it free.

Overwhelmed

It'll be the best decision you ever made.

Dont be shy, approach.

-Goddess Lotus

The right answer

I am a woman that enjoys a total power exchange with my property. That means once trust is established both ways, we work towards me having as much control as possible. I have reached that with my hubby subby and my kitten.There's something powerful in demanding something, and having it given without hesitation. Thee's something powerless in giving, submitting to the will of the one you wish to serve.

It can be addicting...

I told him I needed a credit card. No doubt, no worries, absolute trust. In fact, he willingly offered one, and asked to make sure it was what I wanted. I've spent years conditioning, training, and guiding this white boy to be what I need and desire. It takes connection and willingness on both sides to do something absolutely scary, to hand yourself over to another person. It takes trust and loyalty to make it work for years.

A true total power exchange doesnt develop overnight. Its a connection of a sub and Domme thats been tested, and proven to be safe, sane, and consensual. I've had 2 subs approach me, curious about TPE. For some odd reason, they disappear after the conversation - but keep returning weeks later.
I dont really know what's going on in their little thought process - but let me tell you boys, if you end up reading this. I'm going nowhere. What I offer will remain, and what I demand will remain.You either bend to my will, or you move along and play little games with a woman that doesnt care.

Though, if you are an honest..and curious boy? Curious to know what measures I take to bring a boy to his knees, and crawl after me day after day.. Begging.. "How can I be of service, Goddess?"..

Approach, with an American Amazon giftcard sent to nzingha487@gmail.com

I look forward to seeing you.

Time to get to work

I'm always telling a sub to come check out my blog. I think it is high time I start posting once more. I'm on the computer daily, and it's just me being a Goddess. I have two good white boys taking care of me, that I forget that others want to serve as well.

If interested in approaching me, my kik is Copperlotus.

Send an american amazon giftcard to the email nzingha487@gmail.com

You need to start your morning like my kitten here.

Owned, kneeling, in worship to Me. Let's start your Monday off  the right way.

-Goddess Lotus