Thursday, February 20, 2014

If push comes to shove

Not everything in a D/s relationship is bubbles and magic, orgasms and thank yous.. There comes a point where perhaps a submissive doesnt know how to get his feelings across, so he pushes his Domme away.

Communication is needed to help things progress. It is my job to push my slaves to the breaking point, only to reel them back in, and build them back up. If a pet pushes me away after a scene? How am I to do that? If he ignores my messages, then pretends nothing ever happened? That's not a good basis for a D/s TPE.

There's nothing I can do, but give him the opportunity to leave or correct his behavior.

If a boy says he is sorry, saying it is not enough. I want actions. I expect to see his apology, and his begging for MY mercy with tribute by Friday evening. He could move on and find someone new and exciting, instead, he chooses to make it up to me.

Let's see if he earns his place in my life once more.
-Lotus

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