Separation

As with any relationship, there comes a moment where you are separated from your partner. Could be a business trip, a family vacation that is needed away from your new beau, that takes you from your new found comfort zone. It happens often between a Domme and a submissive in the internet reality of BDSM.

My steff found himself out of his comfort zone for the month of January as he needed to take leave, and therefore unable to see me as often.

I asked him, how did this make you feel?

Most, if not all of the submissives tend to have a significant other that do not know of their.. true nature. The way I see it, youre lying to her either way. She does not know of what makes you tick, what breaks you down to your core of a man, and builds you into what you truly are. The submissive male in hiding is trapped, and caged - and it is freedom, release, power in being who he really is with his chosen Domme.

If this were another life.. another world.. And possibly such an open minded populace, we wouldnt have these issues.

Nevertheless, it is my duty, my privilege - take this boy in hiding, and show him the man he was truly meant to be.. The submissive, the servant, the slut - he was born to be.

There is nothing to feel guilty about in that respect.

-Lotus